Escort Has Message For Wall Street Men: You Are Bad In Bed

The Huffington Post  |  By Katherine Bindley 

Of all the types of men a woman might service in the escort business, a recent BuzzFeed post, would indicate those working on Wall Street could soon earn the reputation of being the worst kind of client.

According to a first person account from a female escort in New York City -- every word of which needs to be read to be believed -- not only do Wall Street men whine about their lives, but they need constant reassurance that they are well-endowed and amazing in bed.

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"They want to talk a lot more than you think," says the author of the post, whose self-described physical attributes include having the kind of "tiny but curvy body that drives men wild" along with auburn hair and almond-shaped eyes.

"They want to vent about their kids' private schools, their bosses, their bonus talks, their friend beating them at squash," she continues. "They have big egos and are big babies. If I made any sign that they weren't the best lover ... they started asking all these questions and putting me down."

Next, the escort gets to what it is she'd really like to inform those former clients:

"No, actually, you're really small and you're bad in bed."

The article is the latest in a series of recent stories that have surfaced about relationships with Wall Street men, none of which have done much to improve the public's perception of banker-types as it pertains to the ladies: In February, a step-by-step guide of the management skills it takes to date a finance guy was published, courtesy of relationship expert Samantha Daniels.

Among the tips was for women to be sure to charm Wall Street men out of talking about work in the first few minutes of a date -- the implication being that they have such a hard time not talking about the office that they could very well zip past the initial niceties people tend to exchange when first meeting someone.

Additional suggestions included not playing hard to get -- because Wall Street men feel they're very busy and important and will just find another woman if you're not available enough -- and to tell stories quickly because their minds move so fast that they probably won't have the attention span for anything with any sort of depth.

Then of course, there was last month's financial services guy who e-mailed his Excel dating spreadsheet to a woman he was seeing and unwittingly ended up sharing it with a good percentage of the people on the Internet after she forwarded it along to friends. That he used a spreadsheet alone might have been enough to earn him plenty of attention, but the document also included the names of the many women he was juggling along with their looks as rated on a scale of one through ten.

The Buzzfeed escort, for her part, admitted that the attention of Wall Street men was alluring at first, but that their appeal soon wore off. She says she tried out "sugar daddy" websites after she quit being an escort, thinking she might find someone looking for "something long term," but found them to be no better -- perhaps because some were still Wall Street types.

"One guy who was in private equity gave me $5,000 a month for four months, but then he disappeared. These men, it's like they die one day," she wrote. "They're all liars. Some nicer or cuter than others, but all liars."

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Secret Service Escort Says US Agents 'Showed No Respect'

By CHRISTINE ROMO and BRIAN ROSS | ABC News

One of the Colombian escorts at the center of the Secret Service scandal emerged from hiding today, recounting in detail her night in Cartagena with a member of President Obama's protective detail and saying she fears for her safety.

Dania Suarez, a 24-year old dark-haired beauty, appeared on a call-in show carried by Colombia's W Radio and Carocol Television Friday morning, telling callers the agent was "heavily intoxicated" and everything in his luggage and his papers was left open in his room and could have been easily stolen.

Asked if she had been a spy could she have removed the papers, Suarez said, "Absolutely, absolutely."

"Clearly, in those moments, if I had wanted to, obviously, I could have done so," she said.

Suarez says she met the agent at a disco where they danced and she began to rub her hands over his body.

"He didn't know how to dance," she said of the agent, identified in published accounts elsewhere asArthur Huntington, who has left the Secret Service under circumstances that are unclear.

She said that Huntington did not appear to be searching for a prostitute but that "I found him."

Suarez said Huntington fell asleep when they returned to his room and refused to answer the question of whether they actually had sex.

"If I answer this you will know what happened," she said.

Suarez said the agent "did not feel he got what he was being asked to pay for" and that this led to dispute over how much he owed her at the end of the evening.

She said she does not consider herself a prostitute, but an escort because prostitutes "are lower class and live in brothels."

She confirmed other accounts that the agent offered her $30, which led to a confrontation at the agent's door which drew the attention of the hotel manager and local police.

She said the agents pleaded, "Please, please no police, no police."

"Between all of them, they collected the money, $250, and that's what happened in the hall," she said. "They were part of Obama's security group and I told them I was going to call the police so they can pay me the money."

Suarez said she left Colombia for a few days because of concerns her life could be in danger and has had no contact with any American official.

"Maybe they are just as dumb as the Secret Service agents," she told the station.

Throughout her appearance this morning, dressed in a skimpy green blouse, Suarez laughed and smiled even as the host reminded her of the seriousness of the scandal.

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A Man's World, the shocking truth women need to know about the male code

 Introduction

  There is a secret world in which every man inherently belongs. It's an unseen world of persuasive male influence driven by greed, selfish desires, and sinister motives fueled by incessant self-gratification.

     "No woman is ever to know."

     These thoughts and feelings aren't limited to your every day man, but shared by the highly educated and powerful men of society as well. I witnessed this firsthand after having the opportunity to socialize with these high-powered men. From the biggest celebrities and sports stars to the wealthiest men on our planet, we all instinctively protect the male code because it gives us a supreme advantage over the women in our society.

     Most women think they know everything there is to know about the men in their lives. The truth is every man lives two lives. One is the deceptive illusion we are taught to present to society and the women in it. The second is the real man only seen by other men.

     We men discuss this subject openly in our social world, but never to reveal it to women because that would break the male code. It's between men and men only... Until now.

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Newt Gingrich $4 Million in Debt; Staffers and Creditors Fume

By JOEL SIEGEL

Newt Gingrich ends his White House dream today with his political committee facing a mountain of debts -- owing about $4 million to scores of businesses and campaign workers around the country who fear they will never get paid.

Campaign watchdogs said the size of Gingrich's debt is extraordinary -- and could have been avoided if the candidate and his team had been more disciplined.

"He was reckless in running up these bills, especially in the last month or so of the campaign when it was quite clear that Mitt Romney would be the nominee," said Craig Holman, a government affairs lobbyist for the watchdog group Citizen Union.

The campaign has been dogged by financial problems since last summer, but its cash crunch accelerated in recent weeks. It finished March with $4.3 million in debts, an alarming increase from $1.5 million at the end of February, according to reports filed with the Federal Election Commission.

The campaign raised $1.6 million in March, spent $2 million and reported having $1.2 million cash on hand.

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Help may be on the way. USA Today reports that Gingrich, in an interview, said he is embracing Mitt Romney's candidacy, and Romney and the Republican National Committee have offered to be helpful in retiring Gingrich's debt.

Relief can't come soon enough for the Gingrich campaign's anxious creditors. The campaign owes Moby Dick Airways $1.1 million for travel and charter flights.; the Patriot Group, a Virginia security company, $449,502 for helping to protect the candidate; and McKenna, Long and Aldridge, a law firm with offices in Atlanta, $183,658 for legal services, the reports show.

But many of the campaign's creditors are small businesses that say they will suffer major hardship if they are not paid.

In Phoenix, a company called Pro-Production Services is owed $32,506 for providing stages, lighting and sound equipment for a series of campaign appearances by Gingrich in Nevada last January.

"We floated quite a bit of money -- a lot of out-of-pocket costs that we covered," said Ryan Driscoll, a project manager for the company. "I am a little worried. Nobody wants to lose 32 grand."

Vic Buttermore, owner of Signs Unlimited in Ocala, Fla., says he's "keeping my fingers crossed" the Gingrich campaign will pony up the $15,000 it still owes for an order of 25,000 "Newt 2012" lawn signs

"Am I nervous? Oh yeah, by all means," he said. "They keep telling us, 'We've got you covered, you will be paid.' But I have my doubts. I really do. That's a lot of money for a small company."

Moshe Starkman of Chevy Chase, Md., is among the dozens of frustrated former campaign staffers waiting for back pay. Starkman, who helped the campaign build grassroots support, is owed for more than three months of work.

"You hear the payment is coming 'next week,' or 'later,' or 'in a couple of days.' They always give excuses," he said. "I've had to spend my savings."

Gingrich told ABC News on April 10 that his "management team got very excited in Florida" and went on a spending spree hoping to beat Romney in Florida's Jan. 31 primary. Romney went on to beat Gingrich 46 percent to 32, a turning point in the campaign.

What Does it Mean to Have Soul?

Dr. Judith Rich

Some people say we live in a "soulless" world, or they refer to a place as "having no soul." What does it mean to have "no soul"? What does it mean to have soul?

Some people are called "lost" souls, some are "old" souls and some look for a soul mate. We have our soul brothers and soul sisters. What does it mean to share soul with someone?

How do you know if you're in the presence of soul, be it in a place, in a person or even in a thing? Does art have soul? Does food have soul? Does music have the quality of soul?

The answer, of course, to all of these questions is "yes." We could look upon everything in the world as either having that ineffable quality we call "soul" or missing whatever it is we think of as soul. But what does it mean to have soul? And how do you know if you're in its presence?

The very first time I ever walked into the house that is now my home, I knew I had found, at long last, my soul's home. Its bones spoke to me and welcomed me home after a very long journey in search of the place where my soul could find peace.

Even though the walls needed painting and it needed a few cosmetic touch ups here and there, this structure, built in 1926, had a story to tell, and I began to hear it when I first set foot inside. Without even knowing the details of its story, I recognized that the story of this house is the story of my home. It's been my sanctuary for more than 10 years, the longest amount of time I've ever lived in any house.

But what is it about a place, person or thing that endows it with soul? As I wrote in last week's post, soul is not defined as an object or a "thing," nor are we assigning any religious connotation to the word. Rather, we speak of soul as a quality of expression that touches our deepest relationship to the very essence of the "thing" itself.

The quality we call soul is what instantly takes us from the mundane to the sublime, from the surface to the depths. Soul is what pierces through our carefully-constructed defenses that protect us from life's harsh realities and throws cold water in the face of our denial.

When soul rises up, it's time to fasten your seat belt, for something's about to change. It might not be cataclysmic, life-altering change that's afoot, but on the other hand, all change has that potential, depending upon how we meet it. And when soul is in the equation, we're likely going to meet it with our guard down and our hearts torn open, for soul is the thing that requires we get real.

You'll know soul is present when you can no longer lie to yourself about whatever it is you've been pretending not to know. Soul demands nothing less than the truth.

One day, you'll look in the mirror and you will see clearly; it's time to start or time to stop, and you'll know exactly what that means. You'll not hesitate, you'll not second guess. You'll see with a clarity beyond anything you've ever seen or known and when you do, you'll know exactly what to do, who to do it with, and where to do it. And you will.

You'll know soul is "up" when you find yourself out on the dance floor of life, dancing your own dance and singing your own song. And you discover that you always knew the steps and the words.

You'll know soul is evoked when you feel something deeply, for when something touches us deeply, we say it "touches my soul." The soul loves the deep waters. The soul feels intense emotions, which run the gamut from melancholy and depression, to ecstasy and joy. Whatever it takes to get the job done, soul is there to serve. It is an equal opportunity servant.

You'll know the soul has been stirred when you look at your life and say to yourself, "This is me." Or say to yourself, "I'm seriously off-course." In either case, soul is happening, for soul is that part of you that will not rest until you've gotten the thing down and wrestled the very essence of it into your bones, into your DNA.

Soul is the quality that has you sit up and pay attention, like when the teacher shows for class on the first day of school. Soul demands your undivided attention or it will give you extra homework just to make sure you don't miss its point. And the soul always has a point to make. It came with a point to make already baked into the cake. And its job is to make its point. And our job is to get it.

You might even think of your soul as the fingerprint of your DNA, for while you cannot see the soul itself, you can see its imprint, and you'd be wise to pay attention to the tracks it leaves. The soul is here to impact, push, pull, sing, feed, and love you into a more honest, complete and authentic expression of who you are. And it will accept no substitutes! The soul means business.

The soul allows no shortcuts. It knows the way from A to Z, but along the path there is also the journey through B, C, and D, all the way to Z, and the soul is not about to miss any of it. As egos, we want the quick fix. We want the pain to stop. We think that if we can shorten the path and get to our destination sooner, we'll be ahead of the game.

But the soul has come to discover what lay on the path itself, for it is the journey, not the destination, that counts. The soul already knows the destination. That's the place from which it came to take on a physical body in order to chart a new path and expand its horizons. The soul knows the way home, and it knows when it encounters a thing, a place, or a person that emits that mysterious quality that smells like, resonates with, or vibrates the same vibration as home.

That's why soul matters. That's why it's important to pay attention to the matters of your soul, for if you don't, soul has a way of getting your attention anyway, and the harder it has to work to get your attention, the bumpier the ride. It's a good idea to pay attention to those invitations when they come as whispers rather than wait for them to show up as tsunamis, for somewhere in between whispers and tsunamis, the soul unfolds itself, and this is what you call your life. The soul has range.

It feels like we've just begun this conversation. We could be on this channel for a long time, for the river is wide and the waters are deep. I hope you'll come along for the ride, for you and your contributions are what make this a more interesting conversation.

For nearly four years now, I've been closing my posts with the words, "Blessings on the path." It is this path of the soul of which I speak. My soul is grateful that you have found your way here to this place we call The Wisdom Well. Everyone's soul is wise. Here's a place to share it.

So pull up a seat and say hello to the ones who gather here. I call you "soulsmiths," ones who attend to matters of the soul. Let us know what's up with your soul this day and what gets evoked in you out of these ideas we're kicking around.

Speaking of missed, I will miss you, for I shall be away until mid-May. I'll be in Hawaii celebrating my 70th birthday with my most dearly beloveds, which includes Dr. Cara. We shall drink a toast in your honor!

'Supermoon' Alert: Biggest Full Moon of 2012 Occurs This Week

By SPACE.com Staff | SPACE.com

Skywatchers take note: The biggest full moon of the year is due to arrive this weekend.

The moon will officially become full Saturday (May 5) at 11:35 p.m. EDT. And because this month's full moon coincides with the moon's perigee — its closest approach to Earth — it will also be the year's biggest.

The moon will swing in 221,802 miles (356,955 kilometers) from our planet, offering skywatchers a spectacular view of an extra-big, extra-bright moon, nicknamed a supermoon.

And not only does the moon's perigee coincide with full moon this month, but this perigee will be the nearest to Earth of any this year, as the distance of the moon's close approach varies by about 3 percent, according to meteorologist Joe Rao, SPACE.com's skywatching columnist. This happens because the moon's orbit is not perfectly circular.

This month's full moon is due to be about 16 percent brighter than average. In contrast, later this year on Nov. 28, the full moon will coincide with apogee, the moon's farthest approach, offering a particularly small and dim full moon.

Though the unusual appearance of this month's full moon may be surprising to some, there's no reason for alarm, scientists warn. The slight distance difference isn't enough to cause any earthquakes or extreme tidal effects, experts say.

However, the normal tides around the world will be particularly high and low. At perigee, the moon will exert about 42 percent more tidal force than it will during its next apogee two weeks later, Rao said.

The last supermoon occurred in March 2011.

To view this weekend's supermoon to best effect, look for it just after it rises or before it sets, when it is close to the horizon. There, you can catch a view of the moon behind buildings or trees, an effect which produces an optical illusion, making the moon seem even larger than it really is.